Vulnerabilities our only way in building

How can we build bridges across to another soul without being seen, heard amd felt. Can we feel ugly, silly, embrassed, jealous, angry, anxious, butterflies, risk being rejected, judged. Can we feel as if our hearts are going to break? And still dare to risk it to be seen and heard! How than can we learn trust? How do we know we can or connect? How then can love otherwise grow in intimacy, safety? How can we understand me and the other? How to learn what this commitment means? To be there for someone? How else can we give? If there is no thrashing out between one another? What holds us together? What gels us as one instead of focusing as the body of Christ? How else only through honest communication...not going through a checklist! We need the time...we need the energy.....in order to build love, the covenant that God intended for us tp have and with him. We cannot build love without sacrifice of one self. We cannot mend our brokeness if we cannot forgive. We cannot build relationship without commitment to one another. We need the structure of a covenant to grow, for within this protected space, we can then work through within us and with another. To have a relationship God has intended for us.